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Confessions from the new New Frontier

“What’re ya havin’ baby?”

Sunday, February 19, 2012 - 5:48 pm - It’s only 9:30 am, but today is already one of those days when I find it easy to love New York because of how often mundane becomes profound here. I got a free coffee from the bodega for being “a teacher who is a very important woman.” Nice. Then I got a seat on an [...]

New Year’s absolutions

Monday, February 6, 2012 - 3:49 am - One of my New Year’s Resolutions (the only one I thought I really meant) was to post something at least once a week. It’s February somehow, so that means that I’ve already not lived up to my own expectations  at least four times. But…instead of the usual throwing up of the hands and declarations of [...]

“Miss, are you gonna fold the slice?”

Sunday, September 4, 2011 - 5:45 am - I was standing in the pizza place near my school in the Bronx, having just accepted a paper plate full of bubbling cheese. The voice belonged to Astrid, one of my classroommate Vanessa’s advisees. Astrid is a recent NYC transplant from California, and I understood immediately the purpose of her question, which essentially asks, “Are [...]

A Mother’s Day tribute

Monday, May 9, 2011 - 2:43 am - I tend to think that these minor, dare I say manufactured, holidays–Valentine’s Day, Mother’s and Father’s Days–are pretty arbitrary. Did I send my mom flowers this weekend? Of course I did, and I’m glad that there is a reminder on the calendar that I should do something like that. Mother’s Day could be any weekend, [...]

My Big Fat New Orleans Mission, Postscript

October 27, 2009

I went to New Orleans with a group of volunteers. We worked on one house that belonged to one family. Others involved in rebuilding the city, however, have serious money behind them and seek to implement Big Ideas about architecture, energy conservation and the nature of community.

We heard a lot about Brad Pitt while were in New Orleans, but I didn’t actually see any of projects bearing his name. Back in Maine, however, I read this article in the November issue of The Atlantic.

The article is intriguing, and it certainly contains ideas that are new to me. Even so, I’m left wondering what all of it actually has to do with the people I met in New Orleans. I can’t escape the feeling that these are the ideas of conquerors and missionaries, not helpers.

New Orleans certainly needs help and its people are generally grateful for the contributions that have been made. I’m not convinced, however, that it’s in anyone’s best interest to take this time of crisis in New Orleans as an opportunity to paper over the place with sensibilities that have more to do with San Francisco and Cambridge than the Crescent City.

6 Responses to “My Big Fat New Orleans Mission, Postscript”

  1. Darlene Says:

    Sometimes people labeled as ‘do gooders’ want to do what makes them feel good instead of asking the people what they need.

  2. Pete Says:

    Quite true, Darlene. You might enjoy this Mark Twain essay on a closely related topic: http://www.logosjournal.com/issue_4.3/twain.htm

  3. doctorj2u Says:

    First, Thank you for helping my hometown rebuild. It is truly appreciated. As to people fullfilling their own desire in helping, we truly don’t mind at all. It is the act of coming to help that is as important as the result of helping. It says to us “We have not forgotten you.” It re-energizes people to keep fighting for something that is very precious to all New Orleanians, our culture.

  4. Pete Says:

    I grew up in a French-speaking town here in Maine, just a few hours away from Acadia national park, although I never learned to speak more than a few phrases of French. Family names are something else, however. When I was a kid, the people next door were named Pomerleau. The family across the street was named Thibodeau. Other families in the neighborhood had names like Belanger, Mercier, Benoit and Doucette.

    Now, I look and sound exactly like the Yankee I am. When I am in New Orleans, it’s obvious to everyone that I am a long way from home. Cajuns (i.e., Acadians) are always surprised when I get their names right the first time!

  5. doctorj2u Says:

    Pete,
    I have recently been getting into genealogy. I have traced one line back to Port Royal, Nova Scotia (Sp?). There is an original document from 1635 listing the residents pledging loyalty to King William of England. What got my notice was that the list of names could come from any southern LA town today. One was my ancestor! Thanks again for your loving help. Contact me if you make it back. I will gladly buy you a cafe au lait or Sazarac. Your choice!

  6. Mike Denis Says:

    Pete, I have no idea who Doctorj2u is, but several of my ancestors are from Port Royal, and one is on that list he’s talking about. The names in Fort Kent, Van Buren, and Madawaska are the same as in New Orleans, Metairie, Lafayette.

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