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Restuck in time

Monday, May 31, 2010 - 10:30 pm - My parents joke that when I was born in the summer of 1980, I joined my childhood already ten or fifteen years in progress. Like everything really funny, there is a lot of truth to it. In elementary school, for example, I listened to Billy Joel instead of New Kids on the Block and my [...]

The fat thing

Tuesday, July 7, 2009 - 2:58 am - My roommate my freshman year of college once told me, “You’re a bigger girl, but it works for you.” I recall that at the time, I was pretty crushed. She fretted when clothes ran small and a size 2 wouldn’t fit, once semi-bragged that she never allowed herself to eat more than 15 grams of [...]

In defense of ?America?

Sunday, March 22, 2009 - 2:24 pm - Orwell was a patriot, a patriot in the sense that he was able to identify things as characteristically “English” which he admired and felt a sense, however intangible, of personal pride in being associated with them. At the same time, he was very open in public and in private about his fierce opposition to British [...]

A belated answer

Tuesday, February 10, 2009 - 11:22 pm - Part of the hiring process in the English Department at UMB is going out to lunch with a group of students so they can check you out and pass along their impressions to the faculty. Yesterday, I was one of these student representatives, and the complimentary buffet isn’t the only thing I’ve chewing on since. [...]

A Lovely Little Symmetry

November 5, 2008

Marge and I were newlyweds at time of the election in 1968. Those Americans who fancied themselves the grownups at that time felt moved again and again to show us kids that they’d had enough of the likes of us. As President, the nation’s voters chose Dick Nixon, a man who pretty much hated everyone. I was a first-time voter in that election.

We were living in the town of Gorham, Maine. I recall that when I went to register to vote, the clerk in the town office simply passed me the form to register as a Republican. When I said I wanted to register as a Democrat, the clerk looked surprised, then stumped. “Just a minute,” she said. “Those forms are around here somewhere.” Eventually, I was able to register the way I wanted to.

Things were tougher for other young Democrats that year. I remember how, in the flickering black and white of our old TV, Marge and I saw Mayor Daley’s thug police club our people in Grant Park during the 1968 Democratic convention in Chicago. Last night, as I watched Barack Obama deliver his victory speech from that same park, all I saw were thoughtful and hopeful faces. Security was tight for Obama’s speech, but there were no club-wielding goons.

After eight years of bullying cynicism from the current regime, however, I feel hopeful again with some trepidation. Obama won by a comfortable margin, but any observer who calls his victory a mandate is far more partisan than I. Those who support our Fortress America of surveillance, interrogation and secret prosecutions are still among us and still in positions of authority and responsibility. They won’t all be rendered harmless on the day Dubya leaves office.

Still, it was nice to see those shining faces in Grant Park, even if 40 years was a long time to wait.

3 Responses to “A Lovely Little Symmetry”

  1. Darlene Says:

    The pendulum swings back and forth and now we are once more leaving a very bad time in our history where secrecy and dirty deeds reigned. Lets all help President-Elect Obama carry out his mission to better our country. It will be hard work and the job is just beginning.

  2. Anne Says:

    I well understand your cautious optimism, but I personally have a lot of faith in those shining faces. Young people in America have been waiting 40 years for a place to put their idealism and energy, now finally there’s a home for it. Obama is only one man, but he sure brings out the best in folks. Yes we can, indeed!

    Last night while watching the results on the internet, my son reminded me that I had said to him that things were really going to change now that Clinton was elected (in ’92). I have no memory of saying (or even thinking!) that, and in retrospect it’s kind of embarrassing, but I’m going to believe it again anyway.

    Hope your wife is doing well in her recovery, Anne

  3. gerry rosser Says:

    It has been a long forty years.

    My son-in-law has taken a turn for the worse, and we are basically in “it will take a miracle” status now. I refuse to write him off. All I can think about are Daughter and Granddaughter.

    Hope your wife is progressing.

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